I'm sure you’ve heard it before
How porn can mess with a person’s brain
And alter their psyche
It’s said that porn doesn’t only affect a person in the moment
But days after the relapse,
You may have felt it before
Sudden loss of energy when an important task needs diong before a short deadline
Or finding it hard to muster the confidence to speak to a marriage prospect in real life
The list goes on with the amount of suffocation is has on people’s lives
But i’m here to say that not all hope is lost
I have taught thousands and successfully helped them end the cycle
And one thing they all had in common in beating this
Wasn’t their religiosity (even though that’s good)
Wasn’t that they were disciplined
Rather the fact that they trained their brain to not desire it in the first place
This does not mean you no masculinity
But that you use the rewire your brain so that you would work towards making your life better
And this is so simple yet so many people online make it out to be complex
So how do you rewire your mind?
By identity shifting…
You don’t fake it till you make it (unless you want to do that, no judgment)
Rather by becoming the identity who already has the things you want.
This by nature rewires your brain to obtain the life you want
Without hustling, without worry or stressing about what might happen in the future
And this was the breaking point for me
Because not only was I lost before identity shifting, I was also homeless,
I lost everything:
My friends, family, businesses, cars,
And this addiction kept haunting me
Until i realised the reason I fall back into my bad habits
Wasn’t because I was losing everything, rather I was in the identity of someone who would be an addict,
And as a byproduct…
I became the identity of someone who would lose the things precious to me
That’s when I found identity shifting and brought me back into the light
Where everything is more than I wished for
And I’m not the only one who went through drastic changes when applying identity shifting into my life
Yusuf email me saying this:
[I got married after following your videos]
And another brother told me
[I couldn’t find the solution i was lost until I found you]
And another brother said to me
[I am respected by my family]
And you might be thinking this is just these people
But what if I told you prophets used this principle too
Yusuf, Musa (AS)
[quran verses]
When you identity shift, the addiction loses power,
Your efforts start working
Your life becomes at arms reach, no longer feeling like it’s pulling away
And the dream wife you want, becomes clear as daylight
You begin to see the dua’s being answered
In ways you could not have imagined
So now…
You might be thinking
How do I identity shift?
That’s exactly why I created the quitting haram system
It’s an intensive program designed for you to not only end the porn cycle
But excel in life
Whether:
In relationships
Business
Career
Or in fitness
The laws of identity shifting work for anything and anyone
And we do this by following 3 pillars
Pillar 1: Subconscious rewiring